Friday, November 09, 2012

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN A MOMENT!




“All beliefs are learned”

What’s your inner conviction about yourself?
Our current beliefs were learned from and influenced by our parents, family, books, the streets, movies, lyrics of songs, religion, colleagues, or even our bosses.

Most times our inner beliefs are negative or inimical to our progress. We feel we’re not good enough, not smart enough, not competent enough, not tall enough, not pretty enough.

You see, beliefs are like computer programs. We unconsciously bought into them, installed them, and then they start to run our lives either towards negative or positive outcomes.  

The good news today is: ALL BELIEFS CAN BE CHANGED (Uninstalled)!!!
There is a law of nature that states that “Whatever you believe with conviction becomes your reality”. “Be it unto you according to your faith”-Christ. James Allen wrote “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he”.

So, You are not what you think you are, but what you think you are.
Albert Einstein was condemned as un-trainable. Yet he became a Doctor at age 20, gave us the "the world's most famous equation: mass–energy equivalence formula E = mc2. And received the 1921 Nobel Prize in Physics.
Kanu Nwakwo was diagnosed of Cancer... Yet he lives to play great soccer.
Lepacious Bose could have chosen to live a life of “quiet desperation” or die of poor self –esteem...But she went on to make money by making herself (Size XXXL) the butt of jokes.
Cobahms Asuquo could have chosen to live by begging, See how he’s converted disability to great ability.

Every human being on the surface of the earth is a genius. According to Howard Gardner (1983) there are 8 Intelligences for mankind:
Mathematical: Scientists. Mathematician etc
Linguistic: Languages. Public Speaking etc
Musical: Song writers, Producer, instrumentalists etc
Bodily-Kinaesthetic : Sports men and women
Spatial: Artists, Architects, Designers etc
Intrapersonal: Writers, Thinkers etc
Interpersonal: Communicators, Public figures, Pastors
Naturalist: Farmers, Agriculturists etc

Unfortunately, recognition is usually given to the top 2 (especially by our educators).
In the end, that intimidating intelligent friend of yours, boss, or colleague has got limits.

Stop measuring yourself against other people’s "Power-Zone". It’s unfair to you and your psyche.
Place yourself in your own "Power-zone". That’s your place of power. Stay with what you're good at.
Tonto Dikeh is a great actress, but a lousy singer.
Mike Aremu is a great saxophonist but would make a lousy politician.
Obama is a great politician, public speaker but he’s got his limits.
Dangote, Tony Blair, Adeboye, Mandela, even her majesty has her limits.

Every genius is a genius because they stay in their POSITION (Boundary)
Imagine how dumb the fish looks outside water, but comes alive in an aquarium.
 
All improvements and personal growth in your life thus far, have been products of SELF-BELIEF.
You can double or triple your income if you believe so. You can unlock your inner potentials by debunking those lies you've been told from kindergarten till today: “You can’t do it”, “You’re too weak”, “You’re too old, “You’re too ugly”. You’re too dumb”. Trust me, everyone bought these lies at the beginning. But, some have learned to reject the lies and transformed their lives.

Wow! It’s indeed an extremely empowering thought! That i can change my life, by changing my SELF-BELIEF! It’s true, the creator of mankind made them all perfect. God makes No junks!

Show me your SELF-BELIEF (Inner programming about yourself) and I can predict your future. 

How to Change Your Life In a Moment!
Start by Acting Right. Act your way into greatness. Speak positively to yourself. Even as a joke, never allow anyone to address you as a “fool”, “Jerk”, “Stupid” etc
Call yourself great names “Gorgeous” “Excellency” “Blessed” “Wise” “Competent” “Favored”. Etc

Simulate the life of a top performer you’ll like to be. Get yourself a mentor. Read positive books. Delete cynical/negative friends from your life. Rid yourself of toxic people.
Walk the talk. Fake it till you make it.
Re-program your thought process by saying:
“I am a winner”. “I’m smart in my own way”. “I’m very unique and special”, “I have a place in destiny” “I’m a man with a mission”, “I think right, i talk right and i live right”. “I will SUCCEED in life”.

And indeed, i will see you at the TOP.

Leke Oshiyemi
leke_oshiyemi@yahoo.com

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Anonymous said...

Very inspiring indeed! But no so easily done when one is constantly and consistently reminded that she is not of much use in the family and society.